CR Step Study Lesson 2 – Powerless

Lesson 2 – Principle & Step:

Principle 1:  Realize I’m not God.  I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and that my life is unmanageable.  Happy are those who know they are spiritually poor.  Matthew 5:3

Step 1:  We admitted we were powerless over our addictions and compulsive behaviors—that our lives had become unmanageable.  I know that nothing good lives in me, that is in my sinful nature.  For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.  Romans 7:18

Lesson 2 – Highlights:

• Pride can be dangerous: Pride, aka EGO, “Edges God Out”, humility brings honor.
• Only ifs cause us to live in the past: We get trapped in a fantasyland of rationalization.
• Worry: Is disruptive and is simply a form of not trusting God.
• Escape: Denial allows us to live in a fantasy world, we then place unrealistic expectations on ourselves and others.
• Resentment: Is like a poison if left to fester… You drink it expecting someone else to die.
• Loneliness: Is a conscious choice to be alone.
• Emptiness: Devoid of hope or purpose.
• Selfishness: We focus more on self and pray give me, give me, give me.
• Separation: Separation from God is caused by us, not Him.

Do any of the statements above ring true?  Have you been trying to WHITE KNUCKLE your problems ALL alone out of shame, fear or pride?  The questions below are helpful to overcoming Powerless.  Click on my podcast below and let’s answer these questions together.

Lesson 2 – Questions:

1. What are some ways that your pride has stopped you from asking for and getting the help you need to overcome your hurts, habits, and hang-ups?
2. What in your past caused you to say “only if”?
3. Instead of worrying about things that we cannot control, we need to focus on what God can do in our lives. What are you worrying about?  Why?
4. In what ways have you tried to escape your past pain? Be specific.
5. How has holding on to your anger and your resentment affected you?
6. Do you believe loneliness is a choice? Why or why not?  How has denial isolated you from your important relationships?
7. Describe the emptiness you feel. What are some new ways you are finding to fill it?
8. Selfishness is at the heart of most problems between people. In what areas of your life have you been selfish?
9. Separation from God can feel very real, but it is not permanent. What can you do to get closer to God?

I would love to hear how this helped you.  Leave a comment below or share with a friend.

Recovery is not meant to be a solo journey.  There is power in number so I strongly recommend that you find a Celebrate Recovery group in your area.  To find one near you click here.  Remember… JOY is a choice, so choose well!